{"id":3182,"date":"2023-01-01T15:37:05","date_gmt":"2023-01-01T19:37:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/?p=3182"},"modified":"2023-03-28T16:01:43","modified_gmt":"2023-03-28T20:01:43","slug":"the-world-without-her-remains-a-world-full-of-mombo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/archives\/3182","title":{"rendered":"The world without her remains a world full of Mombo."},"content":{"rendered":"

This past month was dominated by the earthly departure of my mother<\/a>. The role she played in my becoming an artist and the approach I bring to my practice cannot, and should not, <\/a>be understated. What a debt I owe to her, and to pay it forward<\/a> will require that I live as long as she! I might\u2019ve started \u201cgiving back\u201d much earlier, if it had been my basic nature. I can be a quick study for most things, but it often takes me far too long to learn the rest, especially when it involves stepping beyond my own creative urge. Her life was a lesson in putting others before self. In order to support her parents\u2019 household in a world at war, she turned down a full scholarship to the same University of Cincinnati that I would eventually attend. Decades later, in a nest recently emptied of seven children, and just as she was about to explore her own personal interests, she followed her family to a remote part of a rural Kentucky county. As a widow, she built an ethical foundation for a land-based legacy that is now set to endure for generations. When she faced a grim medical prognosis that would break the spirit of others, she maintained a zest for life, an obvious concern for how it might affect others, and an astonishing diligence to push back against it. The world of my youth had shouted, \u201cBe cynical, or pessimistic, or both,\u201d but she would always be my reliable source of optimism, like a spring which never dries up. <\/a>I could\u2019ve become a quitter early on, but she helped me to overcome discouragement born of self-doubt and to fulfill commitments. If something is worth doing, it\u2019s worth doing well. Why not always do your very best? And then you will automatically get better.<\/em> Along with my siblings, everything was done to provide the care she needed to continue living at home, until it became no longer possible. Those years \u2014 what could be mistakenly judged as sacrificial \u2014 strengthened our family bond in a way that will last us for the duration. To separate that from my activity as an artist was unnecessary at the time and foolhardy in hindsight. Above and beyond the value of artisanship, she taught me that a creative life without love for others is devoid of meaning. Of all the souls I have intimately known, hers is the most worthy of imitation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This past month was dominated by the earthly departure of my mother. The role she played in my becoming an artist and the approach I bring to my practice cannot, and should not, I could\u2019ve become a quitter early on, but she helped me to overcome discouragement born of self-doubt and to fulfill commitments. If […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,26,68,45,18,69,37,73],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3182"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3182"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3182\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3185,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3182\/revisions\/3185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.xorph.com\/uj\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}